How can long-term diabetics balance routines with dining out and social life?

[Stephen.L]

I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes six months ago, and while I've made significant changes to my diet and started walking regularly, I'm struggling with the mental fatigue of constant glucose monitoring and meal planning. My latest A1C showed improvement but not as much as my doctor hoped, so we're discussing adding medication. For those who have been managing this for years, how did you find a sustainable routine that doesn't feel all-consuming? What tools or strategies helped you navigate social situations and dining out without anxiety, and how did you communicate your needs effectively with family or friends who didn't fully understand the daily demands of diabetes management?