Finding credible vaccine resources and planning visits with skeptical relatives

[OliviaHM]

I'm a new parent trying to navigate the recommended pediatric vaccines schedule, and while I trust my child's pediatrician, I'm feeling overwhelmed by the sheer number of shots and the conflicting information online about side effects and necessity. I want to make the most informed decisions for my baby's health, but it's difficult to discern credible scientific sources from fear-based anecdotes, especially when discussing this with family members who hold strong, differing opinions. For other parents who have thoroughly researched this, what were the most authoritative and balanced resources you found that helped you understand the risks and benefits of each vaccine? How did you approach conversations with skeptical relatives, and what practical advice can you offer for managing the appointment days to minimize discomfort for such a young infant?