I'm helping my nephew with his middle school math homework, and I realized I just solve problems intuitively without being able to explain *how*. I looked up some math problem solving strategies, but they seem so formal compared to how my brain actually works. How do you bridge the gap between your own mental shortcuts and teaching someone a structured approach?
You are not alone in solving by feel there is a way to bridge the gap by naming the goals you usually chase in math and then linking your shortcuts to those goals
Try turning your habit into a small shared ritual with your nephew where you reveal a simple plan for the problem using plain language instead of heavy rules
Create a tiny template that stays flexible yet teaches the why behind each move in math
Encourage him to verbalize what he sees and then translate that into steps so the method feels like building on your own instinct
Collect a handful of common patterns like diagrams checking units and testing with a quick example and show how those fit your intuition
Ask him what part feels sticky and tailor a mini lesson that starts from that feeling rather than a generic method