I'm a physics graduate student, and while I grasp the mathematical formalism of quantum entanglement, I'm struggling to reconcile it with any intuitive, physical picture of what's "really" happening between the particles, beyond the correlation statistics. The various interpretations offer wildly different ontologies, from pilot waves to many worlds, and it's leaving me philosophically unsettled. For others who have delved into the foundations, which interpretation, if any, have you found provides the most coherent conceptual framework for making sense of entanglement, and does adopting one actually change how you approach problems or is it purely a metaphysical preference?
You're not crazy—the math is clear, the interpretation is slippery. Entanglement shows correlations that violate classical intuitions, but the theory itself doesn't prescribe a single 'what's really happening' story. My take is to treat interpretations as different explanatory lenses rather than competing experiments.
Many-Worlds with decoherence version: you keep unitary evolution, no collapse; environment selects effectively classical branches. It feels coherent because nothing collapses; but it also makes subtle questions about identity and probability 'branch weights' murky. For practical problem solving, use it as a conceptual map for how classical reality emerges from quantum substrata.
QBism: the wavefunction is a user's personal degrees of belief; correlations reflect consistency rules between separate agents. This avoids a ghostly 'wave' working on the system and focuses on predictions; it's a pragmatic shift, but some people miss the 'real' picture it implies.
Bohmian mechanics (pilot-wave): particles have definite positions guided by a wave; nonlocal but compatible with quantum predictions. It gives a nice intuitive trajectory picture, but you run into tension with relativity and the theory is not widely adopted in mainstream research. Still, it's helpful for visualizing entanglement as a guided coordination rather than instantaneous influence.
Relational QM: states only meaningful relative to observers; no absolute state across all observers. It can remove some paradoxes, but it's philosophically abstract; it's a good tool to discuss how measurement outcomes depend on information access.
My practical stance: choose a frame that helps your thinking and keep the math as the guide. The interpretation rarely changes how you compute predictions; it's more about how you reason about what follows from a measurement. If you want reading, try Bell's theorem, Everett's original '57, Bub's '92, Fuchs & Schack on QBism.